I have been pushing myself for weeks now. Unfortunately the fatigue remains. My iron is low. The insurance carrier stated I have to fail venofer an older low dose IV iron. This can also be given IV push in the acute care setting. However where I work, we don’t administer Venofer.
Now I am stuck because in order for me to get the higher dose iron , I have to fail the low dose iron that isn’t even available for me to try. So I talked to a few people. I was given some assurances but I am so tired .
The dam burst today when my dad said I wasn’t doing a good enough job cleaning. I was also upset because I had swept and cleaned the kitchen to only find it still looked dirty due to the old white floors in our rented residence. ( I will never agree to keep white floors where I move next. If they cannot change the floors, I won’t move in if I have other options.) Usually I can be like whatever , you can do it when you feel better and move on. However this week his back is bothering him a lot. I am younger and supposed to have more energy than him. I should be ok enough to do it. But I was having a hard time. Because I was supposed to have the IV iron yesterday but it got denied. Too late in the day we considered an alternative drug.
Top it off my cycle came early. In a way it is good because next weekend I am on call. I don’t want to have a heavy period and work the next 12 days feeling even more fatigued. Bottom line insurance companies stink. My non- healthcare friends think I should have been insurance coverage than them. Ahem. Not true guys!
Now you may ask why not take birth control. Well no one bothered to educate and give me many options. They told me my uterine lining is extra thick because of my normal size ovarian cysts, except the one on the right looks a bit bigger they told me on the pelvic ultrasound. Oh great and the oral contraceptives will raise my blood pressure. I can’t afford that with my one working kidney. Told the gynecologist, I guess I will have to bleed then. She had nothing supportive or nice to say. This is one reason I hate going to the gynecologist in the first place. They judge me for not being what they usually see, most women my age have had children and are married or in some sort of relationship.
Is it my fault totally that I am still single? That despite not having given birth, that I don’t look like a model? We need to start normalizing it is ok to say you are not ok. That we all come in different shapes, sizes and lifestyles. Also that our lifestyles are not always by our choices alone, but the obstacles we all face in our lives.